This has been circulating around the NLP/ML circles:

https://cs.nyu.edu/~kann/documents/relationshipsinnlp.pdf

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I won’t out “C” but most people in NLP know who he is (a fairly well-known junior faculty).

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Obviously she was treated horribly and the guy is an asshole. And she was incredibly brave to post this. However, I can’t help feel that this is beginning to verge on “personal” rather than professional. The one allegation that definitely warrants disciplinary action would be her claiming that the ex deliberately gave her paper a low review (this could easily be verified by the committee). But aside from this, it seems like more of a she-said he-said type of thing…

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Thoughts?